trans.png)
It's the most wonderful time of the year!! The twinkling lights, festive gatherings, and the spirit of giving are all around us in beautiful Auburn, AL and this creates a captivating backdrop that makes the moment of any proposal feel even more magical.
The holidays are a time of celebration, reflection, and connection. They are also a time of other milestone events such as Fall graduation from Auburn University in December. Many couples feel that proposing during this time encapsulates the warmth and love they share and the excitement of finishing one chapter and beginning a new one together. About 20% of engagements occur during the holiday season and many of those happen on or near graduation day. This period tends to bring family and friends together, making it an ideal time to celebrate such a significant milestone surrounded by loved ones.
Adding to the charm, holiday-themed settings can inspire unique and memorable proposal ideas. Imagine proposing under dazzling holiday lights that are available during the holiday season in both Auburn and Opelika, AL.
Tips for Planning Your Holiday Proposal
Set the Right Intentions
Before diving into your proposal planning, reflect on what this engagement means for you as a couple. Consider your partner's feelings about holidays and proposals. Think about whether they enjoy large celebrations or lean towards personal, intimate moments. It can make a significant difference. For example, if your partner values privacy, a cozy night at home or a private setting might be better than a public proposal.
Choose the Perfect Time
The holiday season is packed with celebrations, so finding an ideal moment for your proposal is essential. Instead of proposing during a chaotic family dinner, consider a less hectic time that you can enjoy the moment together with your new Fiancé without being bombarded by all of the distant relatives at your Christmas gathering. Key dates like Christmas Eve, New Year’s Eve, or even the weeks leading up to the holidays can serve as beautiful backdrops.
Check for Family and Friend Schedules
If you wish to include family or friends in your proposal, mindful planning is critical. The holiday season can be busy, so confirm their availability to share in your joy. Keep in mind that you may not be able to accommodate everyone's schedules so you might have to consider videoing or live streaming to include those that aren't able to be there in person.
Pick a Unique and Meaningful Location
The right location can elevate your proposal. Since many places are festively decorated, choose a significant spot for both of you. For instance, proposing at a favorite cafe where you spent a special date can evoke lovely memories. How about proposing at the site that you plan to have your wedding ceremony like the couple pictured above?
Incorporate Holiday Traditions
Many couples have their own holiday traditions, and including them in your proposal can deepen the experience. Whether it’s a cherished holiday song or a favorite event, integrating these elements can create a more personal touch. For example, if you enjoy touring the Holiday Gingerbread display hosted by the Tony and Libba Rane Culinary Science Center and walking around downtown and Toomer's Corner, then this may be the perfect backdrop for the epic proposal.
What About the Ring
Set a Budget
Engagement rings come with a wide range of prices. It's smart to set a budget before you shop. According to a survey, the average cost of an engagement ring in the U.S. is about $6,000. However, it’s possible to find beautiful rings within your price range. Focus on personalization and meaning rather than simply spending a lot.
Understand Their Style
Take time to learn about your partner's style. What metals do they wear? Do they prefer classic or modern designs? Pay attention to their existing jewelry choices. If you're not sure, asking their close friends or family can provide valuable insights to help you choose the perfect ring.
Timing Matters
During the holiday season, jewelry stores can be very busy. Begin your search ahead of time to ensure you find the perfect ring and have enough time for any adjustments. A little planning can help you avoid the last-minute rush and ensure your ring is ready for the big moment.
Planning the Big Reveal
Capture the Moment
How you reveal your engagement is crucial. Consider enlisting a photographer such as Ivory & Grace to capture this moment. The photographer you use for this photo shoot will likely become the photographer for you engagement photos, as well as your wedding and reception photos.
Post-Proposal Celebration
After the proposal, a small gathering of your closest friends and family will add joy and excitement. Whether it’s dinner or just meeting for cocktails with family and friends, create a joyful atmosphere. This helps you embrace your commitment and share your joy with those you care about.
Dealing with Stress During the Holidays
Prioritize Your Relationship
Amid the whirlwind of holiday plans, make sure to prioritize your relationship. Engage in activities that foster your bond. Start talking about your wedding visions and begin your search for local wedding venues near Auburn University such as Legacy At Serenity Farms.
Manage Expectations
In the midst of holiday excitement, managing your expectations is vital. Understand that things might not unfold as planned, and that is perfectly okay. Being flexible allows you to enjoy the experience, reducing anxiety and enhancing your engagement journey.
Your Engaged!! What's next???
Once the perfect proposal has taken place, you can begin to plan the wedding of your dreams. With so many engagements happening during the holiday season, now is the time to start deciding on a date, touring venues, meeting caterers for food and cake tastings, and searching for wedding attire.
This is a busy time for all wedding vendors, so don't hesitate to start calling and scheduling tours so you can ensure to get the date that you want
Thank you for visiting my blog. We at Legacy At Serenity Farms would love to have the opportunity to help you plan and celebrate. Give us a call or text today at 334-707-4279 to schedule a tour. You can also visit our website at legacyatserenityfarms.com for wedding inspiration.
A shout out to some of the wedding venues that help to support us because our community loves to support local businesses:
Comments